By: Marie W.
I’ve been to parties. Quite a few (haven’t you?). But I’m saved (please, hear me out). I didn’t go to “wild out” or to “have fun.” Truthfully speaking, I went to celebrate whatever event at that time called for a celebration (it’s not an excuse, it just honest). At first, I felt a tad of guilt, but convinced myself that it was harmless because I wasn’t acting crazy. After a while I found myself thinking why I am here? And then I got that feeling that I didn’t belong there. Still I didn’t know if it was necessarily wrong.
When it comes to labeling oneself a Christian, a lot of things are subjective. What’s allowed and what’s not allowed, what’s considered a sin, and what’s not that serious. In the faith of Christianity, the Bible is our blueprint for living. Although it does not necessarily spell out in plain english a list of things, it’s very clear. For example, the bible does not say ‘Thou shall not smoke’, but it does say that our bodies are temples and we should treat it as such (I Corinthians 6:19-20). But let’s stick to the topic at hand.
Going out to the club is a debatable topic for those who called themselves saved indeed, and more so, for the unsaved folks who are silently watching. This article is not to point the finger (because I would have to point it at myself first), nor is it to pass judgment. But it’s written rather, to provoke thought. So in being honest with ourselves, as representatives of Christ, is it okay to get out every now and then to “party like a rock-star” and “drop it like it’s hot?” What if it’s my best friend’s (who is unsaved by the way) birthday?!!! (We do have unsaved friends don’t we?) WWJD?
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Why are you hanging out with unsaved friends. Are you pulling them up or are they puling you down? Please write more obout this topic. There is so much more to say! keep going Marie!
This is certainly an intriguing topic. I agree with the above comment more certainly has to be said! But on another note is it really plausible or helpful to associate or develop friendships with only “Christians”?
I think as a christian we should be allowed to go out and have fun but to a certain limit. We should be leaders not followers, we should be good examples not the other way around.
Christ in Culture….we should be able to carry Christ everywhere. There is a need to discern each sitation, a club may not be the best place to be as it exposes us to alot of tempation, however I believe you must be able to discern each situation accordingly.
What type glory does God get by clubbing? Jesus went to many unsavory places, but He drew men to Him…Christians have to be selective there is a real enemy out there seeking to capture our souls.
You correctly say as Christians we are guided by de scriptures, and the Holy Spirit who reminds us these truths deep within-perhaps explains the out of place feelings while hanging out, partyin or clubbin-i believe der’s lotsa scripture fi dis- don’t u know bad company ruins good morals, Gal. 5.21, de acts of the flesh are manifest-on the list is revelries which resembles de orgies and happenings in club settings, ppo get prompted to do things they wouldn’t do in broad day light-even de worst of sinners-i think der’s somethin not good wit de atmosphere-it’s conducive for sin-why walk on de edge a de cliff, testin de boundaries is a dangerous thing! i’m of de school of thought that wan should feel free to attend formal corporate parties, dinners that are organised professionally wit clear agendas, the same goes fi friends or family birthdays, even non-believers respect u for being firm about certain things like a no wine policies-they may diss u superficially but appreciate yo boldness deep within, but when the lights turn dim, run, leave! all in all, it simply ain’t about right or wrong, it’s about how much u love de Lord-it’ll make u do right and avoid debates on how close to de edge you’ll walk!
Sometimes we misunderstand the concepts of the Bible and what it means to be a christian. Some people live by what they interpret to be the word of God. Sometimes we try so hard to see things that are right in front of us. We take away credit where it is due and we give too much to where it isn’t deserved. It’s one thing to act like a christian and another to actually be. Like M.Wallace stated, going out to a club or a lounge or even a house party, is very debatable. Who are we to judge one another? In my opinion, as long as you don’t commit the act that is defined as sin, it is okay to have safe fun. Let us remember that we are only as good as our greatest sin. This topic is so broad. I, personally do not like debates. Common sense is something that goes a long way, and sad to say, not a lot of people use it. It’s okay to have fun.
We are in this world but not of it. The Holy spirit within us should lead & guide us into all truth.& I agree “common sense goes a long way” I use to think everyone had common sense but I’ve come to realize that is not the case. Sometimes folk make Christianity this complex thing & it’s quite the opposite.
This is such a wonderful christian online magazine. I am really glad that christians have this opportunity to go online and be encouraged. Keep up the good work!
I used to think the same thing…as long as I dont run up on a female then its okay lol lol its funny how you try to justify things mentally just to be able to do them.. usually thats a sign that its wrong..now I aint gonna tell noboduy else that what I beleive is law. But we are in the world not of it. But also lets keep it 100, we all know or have heard these songs, they are catchy and make you feel lke dancing. That I will not deny. But when I noticed that I could have as much fun wildin out with my friends without grinding on some girls as I used to before I started seriously walking with the LORD I was sold..Plus at the end of the night I did not have that guilty feeling anymore. ( yeah that would be good ole Mr. Conviction) I personally had to come to realize this just becasue I am a Christian it does not mean I am not going to want to dance anymore, or that I am not going to like rap anymore..I just have become turned off by certain things subconciously by the spririt of GOD. i.e. I realized about two years ago that I can’t take listening to hot 97 all day..sure some songs are R&B and some songs are inspirational and what not.. but most of whats on the radio is not uplifting, its just straight craziness… to make a long story short I find myself listening to Kiss 97.8 or 107.5
Here is a question for the ladies in here. When you are going clubbing, what types of clothes are you wearing. Are the clothes you wearing drawing the wrong attention. Wearing that short dress that hugs all the right areas, you believe I look cute (in most cases many females do) however, I bet you would get more attention at a bar/club than if i wore my jeans and a t-shirt
This is my take on it….the Spirit of God will lead and guide you and you grow in your Christian walk. What convicts you may or may not convict me….yet. My mother used to tell me, “it’s not going to a party that’s the problem, it’s what you do when you get there.” And, I believe that to be true. Sometimes, we’re so quick to put Christians in a box that we shut out those who may be looking at us and admiring the fact that we were around liquor, but didn’t drink, or that we still looked good without looking provacative, or that perhaps we were able to laugh and enjoy ourselves without vulgar language. Sometimes, being in the world but not of the world is exactly how we can show that we are the Christians that we say we are….but, again, it’s just my thought! 🙂
For those of you who are Christians and find it hard to choose whether or not to continue being part of the club scene, there is a new and hot spot called Club Zion in Newark, NJ. It is a Christian Club….that’s right, a Christian Club. It’s a place where you can dance and glorify God to the hottest Christian music there is. The DJ is excellent, the food is good, and the atmosphere is incredible because the spirit of God is definitely glorified. No smoking, no drinking, no cursing, no grinding, no inappropriate dressing, just pure, clean fun. I went a week ago and I had a blast. It was such a blessing to be in a place with other sold out Christians who like to dance and have fun. I don’t think I got home that night until 5am, but it was worth it. Check out more info on http://www.zionsociety.com. Check them out also on Facebook or Myspace and see what you think.